Memo From A Child To Parents

You may find this list useful (or not!) when dealing with that bad behaviour, or difficult situations that arise.

1. Don’t spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I’m only testing you.

2. Don’t be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel secure.

3. Don’t let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.

4. Don’t make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly “big”.

5. Don’t correct me in front of people if you can help it. I’ll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.

6. Don’t make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.

7. Don’t protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.

8. Don’t be too upset when I say “I hate you”. Sometimes it isn’t you I hate but your power to thwart me.

9. Don’t take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.

10. Don’t nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.

11. Don’t forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. That is why I am not always accurate.

12. Don’t put me off when I ask questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.

13. Don’t be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.

14. Don’t tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.

15. Don’t ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.

16. Don’t ever think that it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.

17. Don’t forget I love experimenting. I couldn’t get along without it, so please put up with it.

18. Don’t forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.

19. Don’t forget that I don’t thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don’t need to tell you, do I?

20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy. I need you.

(Reprinted with permission from The Message International, June 1991, p. 40)

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Italian Design comes to The Internet Baby Shop

We are very pleased to announce that we are now distributors for the new Mamix Ovla crib  – the innovative, contemporary new crib for singles or twins.

The design is aesthetically pleasing being a rounded and harmonious shape.  All materials used are natural  – beech wood and 100% preshrunk gabardine cotton, and the structure of the basket and the support bracket are made from steel to provide maximum strength.

All four wheels on the solid base are adjustable and equipped with brakes, so you can move the crib around the house easily.  Your baby can be close wherever you happen to be.

The twin version has an easily removable cloth dividing wall, and is bigger in order to hold two newborns comfortably and safely.

When your baby grows and is no longer sleeping in the crib,  you can transform the Ovla into a swing in one movement, just substitute the basket with the hammock type seat complete with 5 point anchor harness(es) to accommodate one or two babies.

Have a look at this innovative new crib on the baby equipment scene at www.theinternetbabyshop.co.uk  – we are definitely going to be seeing a lot more of this fabulous new design.

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Looking for a new hobby?

Officially we are in Springtime, and we have had a couple of really nice warm sunny days, but some consistency would be really good!  It’s only lunchtime today and already we have had cloudy periods, sunshine, cold winds and rain.  Deciding what to wear is very difficult, and even harder with children.  As soon as they feel warm, off comes a layer, then the sun disappears and it’s cold again.

We have been watching the Sewing Bee on BBC2 for the last three weeks – one more week to go and our money is on Ann to win.    They have been given various challenges to make clothes – trousers, skirt, dress, jacket etc. and one of the challenges this week was to make a sundress for a little girl.  They were so simple but so pretty and really made us want to rush out to choose material.    Our local needlework shop has some beautiful Liberty prints in stock, together with delicate ribbons and buttons, I think I am getting more tempted by the minute!

The emphasis on the old “home-making” skills lately is great as these subjects have not been taught at schools for sometime, and many of these crafts were in danger of being lost.   We have a renewed , interest in baking (The Great British Bake Off), bread making (Paul Hollywood’s Bread) and Kirstie Allsopp’s various programmes about making items for the home will hopefully encourage many more of us to ‘have a go’.  Should you be interested enough to want to make something, your local library or craft shop may have details of classes, and don’t forget your mum or gran are probably expert too.

If you decide to start producing your own items – we wish you luck.  Who knows, you may be running your own business this this time next year!

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The Crybaby Shuffle

The Crybaby Shuffle

 

Have you seen the very funny advice given (supposedly) by a seven month old baby to other babies on how to stop mummy sleeping?  You may not find it quite so funny if you are one of those poor mums suffering sleep deprivation at the moment.  Everyone has their own advice on how to get baby to sleep through but as each baby is different, it’s a case of working through all the options until you find the answer.

The evil plan to stop mums from sleeping is called the Crybaby Shuffle, and is posted on Facebook as “How to Stop Mummy Sleeping Throught The Night”.   It is based on the Gina Ford books.

OK here’s  my situation. My Mummy has had me for almost seven months. The first few months were great. I cried, she picked me up and fed me, anytime, day or night. 

Then something happened.

Over the last few weeks, she has been trying to STTN (sleep through the night). At first, I thought it was just a phase, but it is only getting worse. 

I’ve talked to other babies, and it seems like its pretty common after Mummies have had us for around six months.

Here’s the thing: these Mummies don’t really need to sleep. Its just a habit. Many of them have had some 30 years to sleep and they just don’t need it anymore. 

So I am implementing a plan. I call it the Crybaby Shuffle. It goes like this:

Night 1: Cry every three hours until you get fed. I know, its hard. Its hard to see your Mummy upset over your crying. Just keep reminding yourself, its for her own good.

Night 2: Cry every two hours until you get fed.

Night 3: [Cry] every hour. Most Mummies will start to respond more quickly after about three nights.

Some Mummies are more alert, and may resist the change longer. These Mummies may stand in your doorway for hours, shhhh-ing. 

Don’t give in. I cannot stress this enough: CONSISTENCY IS KEY!! If you let her STTN (sleep through the night), just once, she will expect it every night.

I KNOW ITS HARD! But she really doesn’t need the sleep, she’s just resisting the change.

If you have an especially alert Mummy, you can stop crying for about 10 minutes, just long enough for her to go back to bed and start to fall asleep. 

Then cry again. It WILL eventually work. My Mummy once stayed awake for 10 hours straight, so I know she can do it. 

Last night, I cried every hour. You just have to decide to stick to it and just go for it. BE CONSISTENT!

I cried for any reason I could come up with. My sleep sack tickled my foot. I felt a wrinkle under the sheet. My mobile made a shadow on the wall. 

I burped, and it tasted like pears. I hadn’t eaten pears since lunch, what’s up with that? The cat said ‘meow’. I should know. My Mummy reminds me of this about 20 times a day. LOL. 

Once I cried just because I liked how it sounded when it echoed on the monitor in the other room. 

Too hot, too cold, just right – doesn’t matter! Keep crying!! It took awhile, but it worked. 

She fed me at 4am. Tomorrow night, my goal is 3:30am. You need to slowly shorten the interval between feedings in order to reset your Mummies internal clocks.

Sometimes my Mummy will call for reinforcements by sending in Daddy. 

Don’t worry, Daddies are not set up for not needing sleep the way Mummies are. They can only handle a few pats and shhing before they declare defeat and send in the Mummy.

Also, be wary of the sleep sheep with rain noises. I like to give Mummy false hope that listening to the rain puts me to sleep sometimes I pretend to close my eyes and be asleep and then wait until I know Mummy is settling back to sleep to spring a surprise cry attack.

If she doesn’t get to me fast enough I follow up with my fake cough and gag noise that always has her running to the crib.

At some point I am positive she will start to realise that she really doesn’t really need sleep.

P.S. Don’t let those rubber things fool you, no matter how long you suck on them, no milk will come out. Trust me
Here at www.theinternetbabyshop.co.uk we hope that your little one is being an absolute angel and sleeping when he or she should thus allowing you to do the same.

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Rise In Number of Buggies Being Stolen

According to LV home insurance, the soaring cost of designer baby buggies is to blame for 20% more of them being stolen in the last three years. 

Figures collected from 33 of the 51 police forces in the country show that these thefts have risen from 738 to 913 per year.

Researchers believe that there is a black market for stolen strollers which is being supported by hard-pressed parents buying second hand.  At the same time, 42% of parents who have a buggy stolen do not report the theft.  Some of the most popular models to be stolen are: Maclaren, Graco, Silver Cross, Chicco and Bugaboo, and they are commonly stolen from a porch or outbuilding at the owners home, or from parks, cafes and pubs.

Prices vary greatly with the most popular models ranging from £427 to nearly £1,000.

So ensure that you buggy is stored out of sight at home and when you are out and about, why not use the My Buggy Buddy Lock,  which, at £8.25 here at www.theinternetbabyshop.co.uk is a simple and cheap  deterrent.

The My Buggy Buddy Lock is an essential piece of pram kit and the answer to every parent’s prayers! It allows parents to carry bags on their prams and the combination lock means that it can be used to secure the pushchair to fences or railings to protect it against theft. The loop shaped device could not be easier to use. It simply snaps on to the pram handle, is clipped together and the combination set. Only your unique number combination will release the lock and pram. With prams costing hundreds of pounds it is a brilliantly cost effective insurance policy.

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Planning for Christmas

With only 40 days to go until Christmas day (yes that is all!) you will be busy making lists of what to buy for whom, the food needed while those shops are shut for one day, how much wrapping paper , Christmas cards, table decorations etc. etc. down to the last twiglet and peanut!

All this manic planning and buying is necessary to produce the perfect Christmas day, and at the end of the day we can sit back and sigh with relief that it all went really well ( excluding the temper tantrums when little ones get over excited, grandad’s dancing, Christmas cracker jokes and the stains on the carpet), but if you are visiting friends and relatives over Christmas, you may need to plan for additional items too.

At www.theinternetbabyshop.co.uk we have travel cots, travel potties, baby monitors, warm n go bottle warmers, sleeping bags, change bags, baby CDs for the journey, sterilisers  and much more all at very reasonable prices.

If you need something that we don’t currently stock, give us a call and we will do our best to help you.

Good luck with the lists – it will all be fine on the day!

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Sleep advice from The Gro Company

The Foundation for the Study of Infant Deaths (FSID) is the leading UK charity working to prevent sudden infant deaths and to promote infant health. More than 20,000 lives have been spared as a result of their research and health awareness projects.    The Gro Company has been working closely with FSID since 2000 to help parents create a safer sleeping environment for their babies. They have funded research and awareness campaigns and use all FSID’s guidelines to inform Gro product development and for the information  produced. The Gro Company have recently launched a new Safe Sleep Guide to help promote the FSID’s “Reduce the Risk” campaign to as many new parents and carers of babies as possible.   Grobag has always been, and remains, FSID’s only Baby Sleep Bag specialist. Of all the charities Gro could support and work with, FSID is the one whose core objectives fit most closely with their own beliefs of creating and maintaining a safe environment for you and your baby.

 

 

During the summer months it can be a struggle to keep your baby cool and comfortable at night time, and on those few hot days that we had in the UK this year, lots of babies and toddlers’ sleep suffered. Now that the nights are drawing in and getting cooler, we need to think about helping our little ones snuggle down, get nice and cosy and stay safely warm. There is no doubt that if your child is kept at the right temperature, it will have a positive effect on the quality of their sleep. First of all, consider the room in which your child sleeps. The recommended room temperature for a baby is 16-20 degrees C [61-68 degrees F.] For many of us, this feels a bit chilly, but research has shown that it is a safe and comfortable temperature for a baby to sleep in. It is usually best not to have a radiator on in your child’s room overnight but if it is extremely cold you can have the heating on low. Use a thermostat to ensure that the room is kept at a safe temperature. The Gro-Egg is a great help when it comes to showing at a glance whether the room temperature is right or needs adjusting.

Having a bath is a lovely way to warm up, and it is recommended to give a nightly one for babies and children, whether its winter or summer. As well as being a great sleep signal, research has shown that a warm bath helps towards a good night’s sleep. After your baby’s bath, they need to be quickly dried and then dressed [or wrapped in a warm towel if they having a massage.]

It is best for babies to be tucked up in bed within half an hour after coming out of the bath – any longer than that and they tend to get a “second wind” and then get over tired and fractious.

Your baby’s bedding is important and you should choose it with care. Grobags are ideal, as they keep your child cosy and replace the need for sheets and blankets, which can be kicked off. They come in different tog values, so you can keep your baby comfortable in both summer and winter. For most year round use in the UK a 2.5 tog is suitable as by layering the clothing the child wears underneath the Grobag it can be used in temperatures between 16-20°C. For colder winter nights a new 3.5 tog Grobag the Winter Warmer has been introduced which is more appropriate for temperatures under 16°C. Whichever temperature your child is sleeping in and whichever tog you use it is important that you should never use a duvet or quilt with a Grobag and in fact even without one, duvets are not recommended for babies under the age of one year.

Sheepskins are safe to use provided that your baby sleeps on their back and for this reason, they are only really suitable for the early weeks before they are able to roll over [at around 6 months but often before then.]

Younger babies often love to be swaddled to keep them cosy, warm, and feeling secure.  Swaddling is safe, provided that you do it from early on in your baby’s life and that a light, natural material is used such as the 100% jersey cotton that the Gro-swaddle is made from. Your baby’s head should be uncovered and if it is very cold in your baby’s room then increase the number of layers underneath the swaddle instead of adding other bedding on top of it.

Sometimes, despite taking every care, you might not be sure whether your baby is too hot or too cold. The best way to check is to feel their tummy or neck. Remember that babies’ hands and feet do feel cold and are not a good indication of their actual body temperature.

Remember too that new babies are not able to regulate their body temperature by sweating or shivering, so you need to make sure that they are kept safe and comfortable.

Electric blankets should never be used and if you use a hot water bottle to take the chill off your child’s bed or cot, it should be removed well before they get into it.

Although duvets are considered to be safe for babies of over a year old,  babies sleep better if they stick with blankets or Grobag until they move into a toddler bed at the age of around 2 years.

Check out www.theinternetbabyshop.co.uk  to see Grobags, Gro-eggs, Gro clocks and  the Gro Anywhere Blind.

Article taken from The Gro Company information sheets. 13.10.2012.

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Ideas for days out with the children

So here we are, two weeks into the school summer holidays.  The Olympics are proving to be exciting, even those who profess not to be interested are taking a sneaky peak at events.   Are you running out of ideas as to what you can do with your children?  We have put together a few ideas on a whistle stop tour of the UK and maybe it will give you some ideas.

Norwich            -           Norwich Castle. Find out what life was like in the Norman keep

through touch screens and computer animation.  Peep through the windows of a giant model of the keep and much more.

www.museums.norfolk.gov.uk

 

Oxfordshire       -           Bates Collection of Musical Instruments  One of the most

Magnificent collections of musical instruments in the world.  The

Bate has over 2000 instruments from the Western orchestral music

traditions from the renaissance, through the baroque, classical,

romantic and up to modern times.

www.bate.ox.ac.uk

 

Cardiff              -           Cardiff Castle.  Let the past come alive when you visit Cardiff

Castle.   Over the last 2000 years, the Castle has been home to the

Romans, Normans and Victorians.  Each group left exciting stories

Of amazing adventures which you can learn all about whilst

exploring the spectacular grounds, Norman keep and castle

apartments.

www.cardiffcastle.com

 

Plymouth          -           National Marine Aquarium. The Visual spectacle of the Atlantic

Ocean tank is a wow with the kids – they are sure to get a unique

and inspiring take on what makes fish such fascinating animals,

from the menacing Sand Tiger and Nurse Sharks to the graceful

Eagle Rays to the mighty Tarpon and Barracuda.

www.national-aquarium.co.uk

 

Edinburgh         -           Edinburgh Zoo.    The largest and most exciting wildlife attraction

In Scotland offering the opportunity to see over 1000 wonderful

Animals!

www.edinburghzoo.org.uk

 

Birmingham       -           Planet Ice at the Leisurebox. Well maintained, child friendly ice rink

With special toddler sessions and kiddy penguin skating aids, plus

24 lanes of classic family friendly tenpin bowling, pool and more.

www.theleisurebox.co.uk

 

London -           Victoria and Albert Museum.  The V & A has lots of exciting events

And activities for families every holiday and many weekends.

Activities are  free and most do not need to be booked, which means

you can stay for as long or as short a time as you like.

www.vam.ac.uk/activ_events/families/index.html.

 

 

All these details and many more can be found on www.daysoutwiththekids.co.uk.

Whatever you choose to do, we hope that the weather is good and you have a fabulous time!

 

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Finalists in the MAD blogs 2012

Being a stay at home mum or dad is a fantastic privilege, but on the odd occasion you need a bit of cheering up or reassurance, there are some fantastic parents blogs out there to cheer you up.

The following are finalists in the 2012 MAD (Mums and Dads) Blog Awards and they are unmissable, they might even encourage you to start your own blog and we will be showing your details here next year!

Adventures of an Unfit Mother is written by Emma blogging about the funny side of life she is desperately trying to see as she raises five children in the countryside of Northern Ireland. She certainly makes us laugh whether she is hobnobbing with the stars in the loos or bemoaning the smell of slurry in her washing!

Read Emma’s adventures herehttp://adventuresofanunfitmother.blogspot.co.uk/
Emma tweets @AdvUnfitMother

Frugal In Cornwall follows Frugal Queen’s journey to pay off her mortgage, drastically reduce consumption and live a simpler life’ and does so with obvious joy. Peppered with quilt making, recipes, shopping and cleaning tips it is a fabulous resource for anyone wanting to live more frugally; her Jubilee quilt is inspiring! Frugal Queen’s blog is written with a warmth and enthusiasm which makes a simpler life look very appealing!

You can read Frugal Queen’s adventures at http://frugalincornwall.blogspot.co.uk/

Written by Jane, a Northern Mum with Southern Children, this is a blog guaranteed to raise a chuckle. With posts titled ‘Sniffing Each Other’s Bottoms’ and ‘Sun, Sea and a Seven Foot Chipmunk’ you know you’re going to need tissues and the Tena! Recently Jane’s blog has taken a more serious turn as she has shared her smallest girl’s journey with hip dysplasia. We love how Jane has continued to blog with humour and warmth while she shares all the ups and downs of motherhood.

Find out what Northern Mum is up to by visiting http://www.northernmum.com/
Follow Jane on Twitter @northernmum1

A Patch of Puddles, written by Merry, records the life and times of a mostly home educated family living with the loss of a beloved child and now celebrating a new arrival with the adorable Ben. Merry blogs about home education, family life, crafts, reading and her small business selling the things her family have found educational, inspirational and fun – who wouldn’t want a Mummy with an online toy shop?

You can catch up with the Puddle Chicks at http://www.patchofpuddles.co.uk/
And find Merry on Twitter @merrilyme

Written by Kat, ‘an Iowan transplanted in Scotland’, Slugs on the Refrigerator charts her children’s childhoods and her motherhood with all the magic, mess and mayhem that it brings. We love that she embraces ‘the fact that we are the people that make others feel better about the state of their homes’, the love and joy which zings out of the photographs on every post and that she often makes us laugh. Slugs is packed with kids, crochet and knitting patterns and tutorials which make even a beginner’s fingers twitch!

You can read Slugs on the Refrigerator here: http://www.slugsontherefrigerator.com/
And you can follow Kat on Twitter @katgold

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Safety Notice for Cosatto Stratford Cotbed

Stratford Safety Enhancement Notice
 July 2012
Stratford Safety Notice Campaign - Calling recruits old and new

The search continues…

The earlier inhabitants of Planet Cosatto amongst you will remember when we asked you to spread the word about the Stratford Cotbed Safety Notice. We’d like to say a big “Thank you” to everyone who helped. For the large number of you who’ve landed more recently on Planet Cosatto the search continues for Stratford Cotbed owners and you can all help us find them.

IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE

In April 2010 we issued a safety enhancement notice for a version of our Stratford Cotbed made between 2005 and 2009. See ( http://www.cosatto.com/enhancement_notice ) for full details.

As a result of our work in April 2010 we issued a large number of safety devices . However, we are trying to reach more people. As these products have a long life and tend to get passed on to friends and family we want to try to reach people that may still have or have acquired or inherited a product. We want to get to as many people as possible –It would be ideal if we could get to everyone with a Stratford Cotbed .

Can you help us spread the word? Do you know anyone who may still have a Stratford CotBed?

We would very much appreciate your help with the above –the aim is to reach as many people with a CosattoStratford Cotbed as possible and you can help us do this.

If you know anyone who it may affect please forward this email or pass on our details or this link (http://www.cosatto.com/enhancement_notice ) as soon as possible.

Thank you for your cooperation.

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